I guess you'll have another one?

Arghh!!! Getting tired of that question. They are pertaining to the fact that once again we have another girl. These are the questions and comments of people ever since they found out we were having a girl for the third time.

I guess you won't stop until you get a boy?
Huh?!? Of course not! Having girls has been so much fun for me or even with Rico. I don't think a baby boy will complete our family..we are already complete.

Why don't you try another position?
Really??? That works??? Hahahha...funny...but I don't think that works lol!

Wow three girls...pambayad utang?
What?????????!!!???? I don't believe that my girls should be the ones to pay the mistakes we had in our past.

You already have three...what's another one? Maybe it'll turn out to be a boy.
Every time they tell me this comment...I just smile. What else can I say you know? People think just because we don't have a boy that we aren't contented. I believe that there's a reason for everything. Maybe we are just meant to have girls. I heard stories how boys are totally different from girls and I don't think I would be able to take care of a little boy especially I'm always by myself.

We hope that Jessela would be the last baby we'll have. No, we are not going to try for another one in hope for a little boy. I know that Rico wants a little boy..all Daddies do...as for me...I'm always happy having a little girl but he knows that having another baby does not guarantee a boy. He also knows that his genes determine the sex of the baby and his family is full of girls. Like I said we are not going to try for another one because number 1) I'm getting old hahaha I don't think I can handle another one. 2) I don't think we can afford four kids especially if they are all girls. Girls are expensive you know. 3) If the baby turns out to be a boy, I would feel bad that he is the only one and does not have a boy playmate.. he might turn out to be gay hahaha or worse would always feel out of place.

To make sure we won't accidentally have another baby we are thinking of permanently doing something to prevent that from happening. But we are still thinking it through because it's permanent. I told Rico if he wants another baby..HE better be there all the time to take care of the baby. I won't go through another pregnancy without Rico there and worse having him away from us when we have kids to take care of. It's easy to give birth but the hard part is to take care of a little newborn. I don't mind the two older girls because once they are older they get easier to take care of but a newborn has so many needs and if you are by yourself...it's very tiring and drains your energy so fast. So most likely Jessela would be the "bunso". And I'm happy having three girls...it feels like I have triplets. And I love dressing them up. It is so fun! Plus they are just the sweetest little girls..always saying "Mommy, I love you." Just melts my heart.

Enough of me rambling...share my new scrap..this one is Jessela's:


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